Veggieupsman, 54

I am a caring, active and intellectual individual just looking for a great woman with those same qualities! It seems to be difficult to find someone who is not scared to make a commitment. I am not scared to do so and want a partner who can make a commitment.

I feel a relationship goes both ways. It is not just about me; yet, also about whomever my partner may be. Our society promotes the I, me, and mine mentality but that is far from true with me.

I want a partner who is honest with me and not scared or embarrassed approach me when a problem arises; yet, we should also be able to have fun and some common interests. I am the person who will treat you like a queen. I am not religious in the slightest bit, but I do believe in being spiritual.

I find I am very open and comfortable with myself and feel my partner should be also. I do not follow any norms. I march to my own beat and have not a care in the world what others think.

Chemistry in a relationship is very important to me as well. Obviously it is hard to forge a relationship with someone where there is no spark.